I really want my best friend from High School to be my maid of Honor becuase I know that i will have the most fun planning my wedding details with her involvment, however she is a total flake!! I haven't asked her to be my MOH yet because im worried that she will agree to it, but then disappear throughout the process leaving me high and dry. But i truely can't see anyone else being in such an important role during my special day...How do I make sure that she is there for me through the planning/event process and doesn't flake out me?