Wedding Party

Asking future BIL's gf?

I'm very, very close to being engaged, and my boyfriend's brother has told me many times that he's planning to propose to his girlfriend soon, too. I absolutely adore her, and hope that she will one day be my sister-in-law. My question is, should I ask her to be my bridesmaid, or wait until he proposes? I would HATE to have her stand by my side, and then they break up and she's in all my pictures! Then again, I think it would be odd for us to all be in-laws, her bf having served as Best Man and she wasn't a bridesmaid even though they were together at the time.

Keep in mind that my bf is planning to have my male cousin (who is the closest thing I have to a brother) serve as a groomsmen, even though they're not that close.
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