My wedding is unfortunately crammed in between everyone and their mother's birthday, including one of my bridesmaids!...First, let me say that I tried to avoid this scenario but my wedding venue double-booked us and we lost the original date we wanted. With the date change, one of my bridesmaid's birthday is most likely going to be the day of my rehearsal. My friend is the attention-seeking type and has already hinted that she doesn't like the idea. She is also a different religion than me and seemed negative about being in a church. She later told me she was just joking about the rehearsal and I can do what I want...What should I do? We are close friends and I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I think she can step out of the spotlight for a day or two. I'm even willing to get her and whoever else a cake!