Wedding Party

Help!! Extra Positions at Wedding & How to inform someone they are not a bridesmaid????

Im afraid I may have bitten off more than I can chew with this whole wedding thing. Sooo here it goes

1. Long story short...I have 3 cousins and 1 of them is going to be a bridesmaid, although she has 2 younger sisters that I would like to include and will result in a family war if I dont! We arent having any singing scripture reading or candles. I also do not want any jr. Bridesmaids. What are some good ways to include them without them being anything I mentioned above.

2. I have a friend who is already telling people she thinks she is a bridesmaid and I dont plan on asking her! We are good friends and spend alot of time together, but she is the type that must be center of attention and sometimes is a huge hassle, which is not something I want to deal with on my wedding day. How do I ask another friend of ours..who is much more understanding..to be a bridesmaid...but let my friend know that she is not going to be a bridesmaid??

PLEASE HELP!!
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