I told 8 girls when I 1st got engaged that I wanted them to be my bridesmaids... However my finace only has 4 close guys that he wants to be his groomsmen. He is ok if my cousin if I ask my cousin (whome is more like a brother) to be one of his groomsmen so now he has 5. I am too picky to have the wedding party uneven, so how do I tell 3 of the girls that they won't be standing with me. I would really like for them to be involved somehow. What are some other things I can ask them to help with?