I haven't asked any bridesmaids or MOH yet since I have plenty of time still but am struggling with the MOH decsion. I have had the best friend since I was 5 years old. She has always been there through everything. I also have an older sister who was nasty to me growing up and now we are close. I have always had my mind made up about my best friend being my MOH and I have been discussing it with a few people and it has really upset a lot of them. Mainly my family is upset with me and the whole idea that she is my only sister and how could I not pick her. I've even had a friend lay into me for the same thing. I know my sister will be upset if I dont choose her but my whole life I've always wanted my best friend to be right there next to me. What should I do? I don't want anyone to be upset or hurt especially my family but ultimately I feel like it is my decsion.