I have 6, yes I know crazy, bridesmaids and a MOH. One of my BM has assumed she was my MOH, when I havent asked her. She thought because in high school we always talked about being eachothers MOH that she was. I dont know how to tactfully tell her she is not the MOH without hurting her feelings or having her bail on the wedding.
I truly believe I have made the right choice, and I wont change my mind even if she bails.... but I will be heart broken. Thoughts?