Hello all!
So I have a family member who keeps referring to herself as a bridesmaid in my wedding, when i have never actually asked her to be one. She is my aunt, however, we are only 7 years apart i age, she keeps using the "well we are more like sisters" line. Which i guess could be true, but in real life i am an only child and have no real obligation i dont think, to include her. I have decided i want my bridesmaids to be my close friends. She really doesnt get the hint, and makes social gatherings awkward talking about it. I just dont think that she realizes that technically we are two completely different generations, and she feesl that since i was in her wedding, ( I was 15 at the time) that i owe her and she should be in mine. I however, do not feel the same. Am i being selfish by not wanting to include her in my bridal party? I have no issue with giving her another role such as doing a reading, or something to that effect. I just dont know how to make it clear. Help Please!