So I need help with a pretty awkward and tough situation..
I am one of three bridesmaids in my sisters wedding. In planning the Bachelorette Party, when my sister (the bride) started talking about it she wanted to do an out of state party. When she told me about it, I told her I wouldnt be able to afford to go. (full-time college student who doesnt make alot). A week or so ago, the MOH sent a message to me and the other BM about the final plans and dates for the party, which is definitely out of state. I told them I wish I would, but at this time could not afford to go.
Well.. in response to that the MOH sent another talking about covering the brides cost for the weekend. So of course I have to say again in short terms its not in my budget. (since I knew I wouldnt be able to help plan or be a part of the Bach. party, I helped plan and fund the bridal shower.) But the MOH is still expecting me to help pay for the trip that I didnt help plan, and not attending.
Of course it caused drama with the MOH, my sister (bride) and me. And really I dont know what to do. I just dont know how to get them to understand I really can not afford it even after telling them a couple times.... Help!