I have a friend who really wants to be in my wedding party. However, I don't know her as long as everyone else who is in my party and all my attendents are already named for. What should I do? She is a good friend, but I can't have in my wedding but I would feel bad for hurting her feelings. Help? She keeps asking if all my attendents are already picked and I keep doging the question, but I really do feel bad if I hurt her feelings. How can I gently turn her down?