I have three attendants: My best friend, who is my maid of honor; a good friend, whom I've known for 23 years; and my fiance's sister in law, whom he is close to and has become a good friend to me.
My MOH seems to think she should somehow be different than the other girls. I keep sidestepping the issue. The dress I selected doesn't allow for a sash or anything like that. I love my MOH, of course, but I also love the other girls. I think everyone will know who the MOH is, by her role, and doesn't need anything "special." Am I wrong?