So, my little brother is getting married and his soon to be wife asked me to be in the wedding party.
When she asked me to be in the party she sent me an email asking me if I wanted to be in the party. Her email stated that she was sorry that it "slipped" her mind the night before when we had dinner together to ask me then. I felt really hurt by the fact that she emailed me to ask me when she lives right down the street from me and that we see each other all the time.
Then it came time for dress shopping, I was told after I accepted her request to be in my brothers wedding that we would have to go dress shopping soon since all the other girls had already gotten their dresses.
Let me go into some details here, my older brother's wife is also in the wedding and was personally asked to be in the wedding and apparently went to get dresses with all the other girls in the party.
I felt like I was an after thought in the wedding party since all the other girls had already gone to the dress shop and picked out dresses. I was blown away when the lady at the dress shop informed me that my dress wouldn't be the same shade as the other girls since they were in to pick out their dresses weeks before me and that had already placed their order.
Now I asked which groomsman I would be walking with so that I can get shoes that would work with the height of the man and I find out that I am in the back of the wedding party.
My question is this....
I am the grooms sister, where should I be in line with the other girls in the wedding party.
Her sister is the maid of honor, next is her friend, next is my sister-in-law, next is another friend and then its me.
Should I be hurt with the fact that I am last in line.
I guess all along I have felt as though I am not really wanted in the wedding. I feel like I should just pull her aside and say since you don't seem interest in having me in the wedding, I will just sit in the audience with my family...
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to handle this?