Hi everyone, I have been extensively searching for bridesmaids dresses. I finally found one I really really like today at the shop where I ordered my dress from. I asked the girls about their budgets ahead of time and they all said $200 or under was fine. The dress I found today will come to $192 with tax (alterations NOT included). I'm feeling really guilty about the price tag. I was really hoping to find a dress for $100-$120. This just isn't possible, the only place I can find such a dress is at David's Bridal. There is a dress I like "enough" at Davids so I am wondering if I should just get the David's dress instead? (that dress is $120). All of my bridesmaids are spread out so the only girl that has tried any dresses on is my MOH. She says she is fine with the more expensive dress and technically it is still within budget its just at the high end.
Also, the bridal shop is telling me I need to order the dresses by 1/15 in orer for them to come in on time and give me extra time to ship the dresses to the out of state girls and give them time for alterations. My wedding is 8/4/12. Does this timeline seem correct? I felt like they were rushing me or pressuring me at the bridal shop.
My other thought was- what if I pay a little of each girls dress? I have 5 girls in the wedding but I could pay $42 of each girls dress so they are only paying $150. I wouldn't tell them I am doing this I will just pay it and tell the bridal shop my intentions. My MOH thinks I am being ridiculous because when people sign on to be in a wedding they know it will be expensive but I am feeling very guilty. Thoughts?