Okay, so I have an 18 (almost 19) year old sister who is driving me crazy. I mean we fight, we're sisters after all, but she doesn't seem enthused about anything wedding related. I asked her to be a BM soon after my FI and I got engaged and she wasn't overly excited then. But I can't seem to be able to get her to liven up. She's being very difficult with everything, procrasinating, making BS excuses, and openly telling me she doesn't care if its my wedding or not.
Take shoe shopping for instance. I took all of my BMs out shoe shopping so that they could pick out the shoe for the wedding. She came along, but after about 30 minutes asked my MOH to take her to a friends. Mind you, these past 30 minutes she hasn't stopped talking to said friend and has been very rude. So my MOH takes her to her friends house because she wouldn't shut up about it, end of instance.
When we went dress shopping for the BMs she pouted the entire time and hated everything we tried on. When we got home she told me she didn't give a crap if it was my wedding, if she didn't like it then she wasn't wearing it and that maybe she shouldn't be a part of my WP. I find this highly offensive because I cut two of my good friends out of the WP in order to include her and my youngest sister (who is being wonderful) in the BP. I don't want to kick her out because of the tension it will bring, but she's stressing me out!!!!
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I'm thinking about making a "no phone rule" for all wedding party related activities because she never gets off the damn thing, but I don't want to punish my other BMs who haven't done anything.