Hey Lovely Brides to Be! I need your input. I have a serious dilemma – and we do not know how to handle it. My Fiance’s Sister (and her hubby) did not even congratulate us or say a word to us about our engagement. Personally I am not petty, a facebook post or email would have been sufficient. Even when we were face to face with her - not a word to me. I am always so nice to her, Whenever I see her I ask her how she is doing , compliment her on her appearance or tell her how beautiful her kids are etc….My Fiance and I always watch her kids (whom are so cute and amazing) . We shower them with gifts and love them to pieces. She has always been pretty cold to me. I really did not think or her being an option as a bridesmaid – and now even more so set against it. Here’s where the story gets difficult: 2 and a half years ago she was engaged and asked my Fiance to be in their wedding over the phone. We had just started dating and I told him he should do it – because it was his SISTER!! He called her back and sad “WE would participate in their wedding” I was shocked since I only met her 2 times and she barely spoke to me?? I sucked it up and participated . It was nice – but she just asked me because she needed to “even out the bridesmaids” What do I do ? I am not very close to her – Neither is my Fiance. I sincerely do not want to hurt anyone’s feelings. But in the same respect we feel almost obligated. Please advise!