My MOH thought that I would want her daughter as a flower girl and went ahead and told her that she was going to be a flowergirl in my wedding. She is sure that it was because I had said that I wanted it. I explained my reasons for not asking her daughter, that I wanted her there as a friend and not having to worry about her daughter, I was including a child from my extended family in the wedding party, and her daughter is flowergirl in another wedding in the same summer.
I received an email from my MOH with the reasons why she thinks that her daughter should be a flowergirl, after we have had 2 conversations about me explaining why I didn't ask her, and thinking that the conversation was over.
This is a friendship that I really value, we have been friends for many years, and her daughter is my god-daughter (so is the other little girl that I have in my wedding party). I don't want to damage the friendship, but also don't appreciate the email stating that I need to ask her daughter. We already have so many other issues going on with our wedding and don't want to add to it.
Any similar experiences? Any suggestions?