One of my bridesmaids that Ive known practically since birth has a sister that Ive known just as long and I am extremely close with as well. That sister is younger than we are and has always had an on again off again relationship with my sister who is the same age. Anyways, out of everybody, she has been the nost help and always willing to do anything for me. She is constantly asking for things that she can help with and even offered to be my little "assistant" the day of the wedding. I feel really bad for not asking her to be in the wedding but am kinda stuck on what to do. Do I ask her to be inthe wedding party or just appreciate the help that she is offering and get her a special present at the wedding. Thanks for your thoughts!