So my fi and I decided to ask his younger sister be a bm. They are not close by any means, and I have only met her once in the two years we have been together. However, we decided it would be nice to have family by our side. About almost two months ago I handmade invitations asking my bridal party to be bm's. Everyone except for his sister responded right away. Well here we are two months later and after emails, telephone calls, text messages, and even a little chat with FI's mom I still have not recieved an answer from her! Fi has even asked her what the heck is going on, and she responds with "I've been really busy". Well we've all been really busy, but I think it's extremely rude to all out ignore Fi and I. If you don't want to do it, then grow a pair and say so. My Fi's mother even said "Well she may say she doesnt have the money to be part of, but tell her not to worry, I will pay for her expenses". So it isnt a money issue, it isnt a time issue, I think the issue is she could just care less. Should I continue my efforts to get an answer out of her or just say the heck with her and find someone else? I mean at this point there isn't even a relationship to ruin. Thanks in advance!
