i have a pretty conservative family so I'm paying close attention to small things so i dont offend anyone (dresses arent revealing, clean dance music, etc.). well one of my bridesmaids keeps getting large (poorly done, homemade) tattoos -recently one on the side of her neck and a huge one across her chest. I would like to find a way to cover them. I'm going to have our stylist put her hair in a low side pony to cover that one, and as for the one on the chest....instead of all the girls wearing the same dress, do same length and color with different necklines. she walked into my house yesterday with purple hair!!!! We've been friends for 15 years and this just started with her. I ,in a funny way, told her last night that purple isnt one of my wedding colors! I'm pretty sure I can talk to her about it without her getting offended, i just dont want to hurt anyones feelings.