I am seriously getting fed up with 2 of my 4 bridesmaids. One lives in another state and is totally fine and I talk to her often about everything. Another is there every step of the way, going to wedding fairs and just being there as a sounding board and anything else I need. Another is a great friend as long as I drive to see her, when I email her and when I call her. Anytime I suggest we meet after work (we work 5 minutes from each other) she NEVER can. She never cares to listen when I need a sounding board, she changes the subject to herself and what she is going through (and its just miscellaneous drama). And the other is passive aggressive about not wanting to see one of the others. Its like "ooohhh....I have plans", when she finds out that the other will be there. (They met once for an hour or so). So the final straw was that we FINALLY booked the reception hall - its been almost 8 months of searching. And as a small celebration and for them to see where the location was, I invited them to come have a Happy Hour there with me. (Its at a hotel so I figured we go to the lounge). And the one who is always there - of course can make it. The passive aggressive one says she has plans and the who works close by (the hotel is 10 minutes from her work) said she has an appt. with her personal trainer???? I gave a week notice! I am getting so fed up!!!!! I don't expect us to all get along but is this too much to ask for?????