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Maid of Honor or Matron of Honor after divorce

Can anyone answer this question for me?  My cousin is going to be my maid/matron of honor.  The thing is, she's divorced.  So, does that make her a "Maid" of Honor or a "Matron" of Honor since she has been married before?

Re: Maid of Honor or Matron of Honor after divorce

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    Ask her what she feels is most appropriate.  That's really the only person whose opinion matters on the subject.  But if I had to guess, I'd say "maid" since she is divorced.  

    Maybe approach it this way: Send out an email to all the BMs saying, "Here's how I've got you all down in the program; what do you think?" with her as maid.  If she corrects you then change it.  If she doesn't, leave it be.
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    Why don't you just call her your Honor Attendant which gives the title without any indication of her marital status?
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
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