Here's the dilemna - I was just engaged and am trying to figure out my bridal party. I have a friend who I've been friends with since we were very little. After high school we lost some of our closeness and rarely talk. When we do, its nice - but I'm not sure I want her a part of my bridal party. She doesn't even know my fiance. This probably sounds silly but while I don't want her a part of it, I feel bad not including her. Does anyone have any advice or has anyone gone through a similar situation? How do I explain myself if she brings it up? I honestly think she is just expecting to be in it?