My maid of honor has been my friend for 33 years. She started planning my bridal shower and bachelorette party without talking to the other 5 bridesmaids. She picked a date that 2 of them cant make and Plus i have to work that weekend. Now she is mad that i found out the date of everything, she wanted it to be a surprise. She is now telling me that Im making some of my bridesmaids have panic attacks because of all the wedding talk. She also wants to have a pure romance party for the bachelorette part but I told her I wasnt into that and she got mad. Now she wants no talk about the wedding until Aug. She cant even take time out of her schedule to come to rehearsal the nite before. What to do.