This board has essentially become my home base, and the people whose advice I trust the most hang out here, so this is where I'm coming to for my little personal issues.
So over the past few months, DH was transferred to a new branch (He's in banking, recently became a manager, thus the transfer). He's been with the company for a few years, and actually the last branch he worked in was my bank years before I even met him, so naturally I knew all of his co-workers. So there was never a "Me meeting who he works with" there.
But now he's at this new place, and he's got new staff, and some supervisors have changed positions and all this stuff ... and basically now I don't know any of these people that he works with. However, he works locally, so I'll sometimes visit him on my days off, bringing him lunch or pop in to say "Hi" if I'm shopping in the area. And now I'm meeting all of these new people when I stop in, obviously.
Anyway, pretty much everybody he's introduced me to since he started there has had the following conversation (Or a very similar variation) after I leave:
Random Employee: "So that's the wife/FI, huh?"
DH: "Yup, that's her"
RE "You know, she's not what I expected at all".
DH: "Really? How so?"
RE: "Well, I always pictured you as a guy that went for personality"
DH: (offended by this): "Well, she has a personality. A great one"
RE: "No, no you're right, she really is nice ... I just figured you would go for personality first".
And then of course DH responds with "What the hell is that supposed to mean?", and to date, he has yet to get a real answer.
So we're both actually kind of bothered by this. DH kind of takes it like "Am I so hideous that it's hard for people to believe you married me?" ... and I take it like ... well, I'm not sure I can really describe how I take it, but it really bothers the hell out of me.
So what I really want to know, honestly, am I nuts for being bothered by people saying stuff like this?
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