My BM's are supposed to order their dresses by the 15th in order to make sure are received in time for the wedding and to have time for any necessary alterations to be made. While none of the girls have ordered their dresses yet that is not the cause of my stress at the moment.
I went shopping with my girls about 6 weeks ago and we picked out the dress they were going to wear with the January 15th ordering deadline. I told them at that time that if they had any issues with ordering or buying the dress to let me know as soon as possible....mostly because I knew that one of my BM's was in a difficult financial situation, and if I needed to help her I was going to need notice in order to be able to do so. Now we are two weeks away from the deadline and FH tells me that she called him yesterday asking him if he could loan her the money to buy the dress and she would pay him back. My feelings are really hurt by the fact that she went to him and didn't come to me to talk about it.
I'm not really sure what to do because I'm not sure that I will be able to have the money to buy the dress for her by the deadline because our financial situation has changed over the past few weeks as well...what do you think I should do?