what an intersting couple of weeks it's been around here. our wedding is this saturday, 9.10.11. my dear friend Ty, who was supposed to be a bridesman, passed away unexpectedly 2 weeks ago. we've planned out how to honor him during the ceremony, but i am unsure as to what to do about the programs. we're printing them ourselves, so i really need to figure this out. do i list him? do i not? how do i list him? arg. any advice would be appreciated.