We have a big wedding party (8 each side) and instead of having more guys to be ushers we were thinking of just having the groomsmen be ushers before the ceremony. Is this acceptable? do we *need* ushers?
Also, since I have my 6 besties and 2 sisters i dont really think i need/want a personal attendant. I don't know why, but i feel like it's sort of a slap in the face. It's like "you're my friend but not good enough to be my bridesmaid so can you just be our bitch for the day?!' IDK just how I feel.
Am I crazy or is this ok?