Recently I had a falling out with my sister( my twin) who pretty much named herself my MOH. I would confide in her about things for the wedding and one day she came over to hang out and I asked her a simple question and she lashed out at me saying I was being too much etc... just so you know, we are totally different, I am very much into detail- I went to school for interior design, she is not so much. I have been feeling uncomfortable asking her opinion on anything now ( we pretty much have not even touched the topic of the wedding since the falling out). Meanwhile while visiting with one of my other bridesmaids to hang out she had asked about the wedding and what the status was and asked why i havent been talking so much about it. -Well that was news to me because I was pretty much told by my MOH that I talk too much about it. I cant win, i either dont talk enough about it or I talked too much about it.
During the falling out she had gone to another one of my brides maids houses that lives close by and vented to her ( she is a mutual friend of my sister and I) and aparently my sister asked our friend if she had experienced what she was experiencing with the girl she is MOH for ( the friend is in 2 weddings- a bridesmaid in mine and a MOH in the other) The friend said no - I dont know what was exaggerated etc. Keep in mind MY MOH is my SISTER... The Friend's bride is her friend. Wouldnt you go to your family if you are close with them? There is a difference I think.
I just dont know what to think of this and what to do. SHE was the one that put herself in the position of my MOH and knows how i am with details, and now i cant even talk to her about the wedding for the fear that I will talk too much about it to her.