One of my bridesmaids is a single mom of a 4 year old daughter. As such, she has often had to bring her daughter with her to various wedding functions (i.e. bridesmaid dress shopping, the shower, etc.). This is fine so far, but how do I let her know that I don't really want her to bring her daughter with on the morning of the wedding when we are all getting ready? She's a little rambunctious and I'm worried about her being around my dress that morning. Also, I think it's going to be hectic enough, without adding a child into the mix.
How do I bring this up tactfully? I have no problem with the child being at the ceremony and reception, I just want the morning of the wedding to go smoothly. Help!