I have never posted in the forums.. thinking I am posting in the right board!
I have two friends (that's pretty much it). I am getting married November 2012. Now, one friend, I have known since I was crawling in diapers, and one since middle school. I spend more time with, let's just call her Amy, who I have not known longer, because my other friend lives three hours away. Now, Amy, always seems to not be very happy when I spend time with other friends, even my Fiance, she always seems to be jealous, was not happy when I got engaged (literally just said 'Oh' and got off the phone) and is always getting mad when I spend time with my fiance instead of her. She is always acting rude towards my fiance, and she has fought with him multiple times, and has made it clear she doesn't like him, she really has no reason for it either.
Now, as for my friend who I have known since birth basically, was so happy for me, has supported me, never acted jealous, loves that I'm getting married, and we have always said we would be each others Maid of Honors..
This all sounds juvenile, but this is just how it is.
NOW, when I told "Amy" that I was planning my wedding, she got excited and told me "Now I can be your Maid of Honor!" and didn't really leave me room to set her straight, plus I had no even gotten that far in to planning so I did not really know what to say..
Sorry for that really long post but basically, we are going to try on bridesmaids dresses tomorrow, and.. they kinda both think they are the Maid of Honor..
How do I set them straight?
I am not interested in losing a friend over this, and really, "Amy" has the tendancy to flip her lid when things do not go her way..
(I always have trouble with these things, I am the type of person who is kinda shy and avoids conflict..)
Sorry for long post! Just trying to give the details!!