Another wonky BM scenario

chyleina

Solved.

Manwaithiel

There is an FAQ thread right above your post saying it's okay to have uneven sides. So yes. It's fine.

trix1223

So you'd keep your closest friend out of your wedding because symmetry is more important to you than your friendship?  Very nice.

WPs are not about symmetry (or gender for that matter).  Lose the notion of even "sides" and your problem is instantly  solved.

whitma87

at the end you could have two bridesmaids inbetween a groomsman... thats symmetry.

lalap69

You can have uneven sides.  1 GM can escort 2 BMs.  Bam, problem solved.

chyleina

Nothing listed on the FAQ about that one. Thanks though.
My friendship is important to me. That's why I wanted to inlcude her. I just wanted suggestions.
Whitma87, thank you. Fi's little brother would look like a stud with my two best friends walking down the aisle with him.

aerinpegadrak

I had two more than DH, so our processional/recessional went 2, 3, 3, 2. 

Riddle me this: what is the worst that could possibly happen if the sides are uneven?  Seriously, I'm curious what you think is the major problem here.

aerinpegadrak

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_another-wonky-bm-scenario?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:8f40924e-aa3e-4e71-b44e-d57dbc7efcfaPost:34a282b5-862a-4f87-81e3-6db2eb91d91b">Re: Another wonky BM scenario</a>:
[QUOTE]Nothing listed on the FAQ about that one. Thanks though. My friendship is important to me. That's why I wanted to inlcude her. I just wanted suggestions. Whitma87, thank you. Fi's little brother would look like a stud with my two best friends walking down the aisle with him. :)
Posted by chyleina[/QUOTE]
It's not in the FAQ, but it IS listed at the very top of the main page, right underneath the big white text that says "wedding party".  It should have been pretty much the first thing you saw on this board.

lalap69

From the main page:
[QUOTE]<strong>Are uneven sides okay? (Yes!)</strong> Can you kick out a pregnant bridesmaid? (No!) Ask the toughest wedding party questions here. [/QUOTE]

bablingbrooke

We had one more BM than GM.  The wedding police didn't bust the place up and no family members walked out in protest.  Ask your friend already.  To exclude her due to numbers would be beyond asinine. 

chyleina

Alright, I got it.
Thanks!

janedoe1113a

Please don't delete your posts.  It's rude and your question could have helped someone else.

bablingbrooke

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_another-wonky-bm-scenario?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:8f40924e-aa3e-4e71-b44e-d57dbc7efcfaPost:e66c3162-f0db-4ea3-89a6-f1b66f5d1779">Re: Another wonky BM scenario</a>:
[QUOTE]Please don't delete your posts.  It's rude and your question could have helped someone else.
Posted by navybaby1113[/QUOTE]
Nah, in this case all they had to do was look at the name of the board :)

Manwaithiel

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_another-wonky-bm-scenario?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:8f40924e-aa3e-4e71-b44e-d57dbc7efcfaPost:afac96a4-741a-438c-88cd-050ce678a840">Re: Another wonky BM scenario</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Another wonky BM scenario : Nah, in this case all they had to do was look at the name of the board :)
Posted by bablingbrooke[/QUOTE]

I unfortunately committed the travesty of calling it FAQ's. Dear me.