I need wedding party help!

TatemM0910

Ok so I am AZ born and raised, and im Living in FL where i met my FL born and raised fiance. We have now decided, after much thought and debate, to get married in AZ. Our wedding party is obviously split, some Az residents and some FL. I need cute ideas of how to ask our wedding party to be our wedding party- SOMEHOW?! Any ideas? Maybe something i can mail them all? NEED ADVICE!!HELP!!

Viczaesar

I suggest you a) calm down and stop yelling, and b) call them, individually, and ask them to do you the honor of standing beside you when you marry the love of your life.  But I would wait until you are about 9 months out, so in February or so.

AdeleDazeem

Some people like to send little cards, cookies, flowers, etc... to the people they have chosen for their bridal party.  That's fine if that is what you want to do.

I'm more of a pick up the phone and call them type of person.  The honor is in being asked, not how it is done. 

I was a MOH several years ago and bride asked me via card through the mail.  I was actually a little sad.  A phone call would have felt more personal to me.  But this is my opinion.

stina93446

I called them. Just remember the honor is in being asked.

trix1223

Telephone.  Easy, personal, and you get to hear the excited response.

Will you friends really feel more honored if they get a cookie shaped like a dress?  Just call them up and ask. 

Let this be the start of realizing that not everything about your wedding has to be some kind of "production".