I am just starting planning and I have a big issue>> I don't know who to ask to be my maid of honor, whom I'll depend on to help me plan this whole thing. My younger sister is huge wedding person, but she lives out of state and is planning her own wedding as well. I want her daughter to be my flowergirl as well. My older sister lives in state, but she has no experience with weddings, and doesnt even attend them usually unless its a extremely close friend. My sister in law is super helpful, and lives in state. Im goin o have three bridesmaids along with the MOH,
Also, I want to invite my mother to the wedding, but im not sure if she will behave herself if we have drinks at the reception, and I'm not sure I want her around when I get ready, but I don't know how to politely exclude her. I want her at the wedding, but I don' trust her not to show up drunk on my big day. I know my family would be extremely upset if she doesn't get invited, but no one would be willing to babysit her for soberity, and my dad is going to too busy to look after her.
Also, my brother and I are twins, so is there any special role I can grant him?
