Wedding Party

Need some advice..

So, I am having an out of state wedding at where I grew up (which is 800 miles from where me and my fiancee's family live). My fiancee asked his brother-in-law to be his groomsman. His brother-in-law, has no idea when or if he can go until right before the wedding due to a potential job opportunity. But I don't want to know at the very last minute that he cannot go. Which makes me unsure if it is rude of us to see if someone else is available to replace him?? Help!
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