My fiance's family is great, but his brother is very immature and doesn't know when to stop before something is too much. I worry that having him in the wedding party is just going to ruin our day, he cannot participate in something fun or funny without going way over the top and ending up making other people mad.
I want to have some fun with pictures and fun at the reception but I feel like he won't constrain himself and it will ruin everything. The other thing I worry about is he doesn't feel the need to participate in normal hygenic practices and I don't want to look through pictures and have people say with a grimace who is that. Let alone which maid am I going to pair him up with?
Should I just bite the bullet and put him in or cut down our wedding party to just the maid of honor and best man?