I selected my wedding party in June of last year. One dropped out because she "couldn't afford it." That was fine, because I got to ask somebody that I really wanted, not somebody who I felt obligated to ask.
NYE I was given the news that another one may bite the dust. I knew she was trying to get pregnant, and I have no problem with her being pregnant in the party. I did ask that they wrap it in October and November. Of course I am very happy for her, but this puts her at and uncomfortable 8 months. She wanted to back out right away, but I asked her to take her time and think about it.
I am really hurt and I feel bad about it. Any of you have an about to burst BM that stuck it out?