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BMs no longer allowed to choose own dresses, and it's causing problems!!

My wedding is in 9 months and I only have 2 female attendants, a MOH and one BM.  In the beginning I was planning on allowing them to pick their own dress as long as I chose the designer, color, length, and fabric. 

Now it seems as though I need to have them matching because my 31yr old MOH wants something sleek and sexy, while my 17yr old BM (cousin) wants something a little more plain and flowing.  It's a daytime wedding on an old plantation and I don't want them to look so drastically different....or in a sexy cocktail dress at the wedding.

I know it's MY day and I get to chose, but how would you approach telling them?
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