When I got engaged my sister automatically assumed she was MOH and started all her talk about it and picking out her dress and what to do with her hair, ect. She's 17, but can be extremely immature and it's always all about her. I don't know if I want her as my MOH because I am also trying to pack and move across the country while planning a wedding with my mother (my FI is deployed). I don't know if she's mature enough to handle it. She has been to an expo with me and that seemed to get her a little more into the ideas. She's starting to look through mags and randomly will bring things up.
My best friend has been with my from the start. She's been talking about what dress and how I'm gonna do my hair, photographers, venues, ect. She's been a bridesmaid and MOH already. So this isn't new to her. I feel like she'd be a bigger help. We already talked about my sister and how she assumed she was MOH, and she said she wasn't offended if she wasn't MOH. But I know she is going to do the work of an MOH and my sister probably won't.
Should I tell my sister back off or let my best friend help me and keep her bm? I know either way she's going to be thanked appropriately for the work she does and all the helps she's giving me.
Oh, wedding is in July...hopefully.