Okay so I have two problems. First off, I already have more than my ideal number of BMs and I need to cut one. The problem is that I want to include my 3 roomies have been some of my closest friends for the past year and I want to include my 3 best friends growing up and also my cousin who used to be more like a sister, but ahs more recently become more distant. I was one of three BMs in my cousins wedding, so would it be a slap in the face not to have her as one of my BMs when six other girls are? Secondly, I REALLY want my gay best friend to be a part of the wedding but my fiance isn't too terribly fond of him. So if he isn't on my side or on the groom's side, how can I still incorporate him in the wedding?