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You're Fired...?

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It took me a while to fill an open spot in my wedding party. I had a gut feeling who I wanted, but still, I wasn’t sure. Then, I asked her, she accepted, and it was like ever since she’s been vacant from my life, ignoring me, not hanging out, natta. I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if she wants to be in my wedding anymore! We’ve been friends since we were 14, but when I asked her we were really close, now, nothing. Maybe a FB comment here and there. What do I do?
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  • MyNameIsNotMyNameIsNot member
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    Maybe her feelings are hurt because you think she is a prop and not a person.
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  • tidetraveltidetravel member
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    [QUOTE]It took me a while to fill an open spot in my wedding party. I had a gut feeling who I wanted, but still, I wasn’t sure. Then, I asked her, she accepted, and it was like ever since she’s been vacant from my life, ignoring me, not hanging out, natta. I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if she wants to be in my wedding anymore! We’ve been friends since we were 14, but when I asked her we were really close, now, nothing. Maybe a FB comment here and there. What do I do?
    Posted by angel205[/QUOTE]

    So, what's your real screenname?
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  • ManwaithielManwaithiel member
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    You can look at the thread right under yours and get answers to your questions.

    Edit: Never mind. Confused you with someone else.
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  • SSaltzman87SSaltzman87 member
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    She's most likely upset because she feels like a prop in your wedding instead of feeling you genuinely want her in your wedding party. Can't say I blame her.

    Also, 'an open spot'!? What is this, a job?
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  • ManwaithielManwaithiel member
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    PS:

    Is this the same girl that you wanted to replace with your sister? I believe everyone already answered your question on how you should handle this one.
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    How about you try reconnecting with her?  
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  • direy25direy25 member
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    I'm also confused about the "open spot" part. 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_fired?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:a7e43c56-4762-4664-86d0-ed1440cf498cPost:631c9608-b831-4fe2-85f9-ae0eacd1347e">Re: You're Fired...?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm also confused about the "open spot" part. 
    Posted by direy25[/QUOTE]
    Isn't it obvious?  You go to real hell, not just wedding hell, if your sides are uneven.  Everyone knows that...;)
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: You're Fired...? : Isn't it obvious?  You go to real hell, not just wedding hell, if your sides are uneven.  Everyone knows that...;)
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    :::facepalm::: Of course, what on earth was I thinking?  Thanks for clearing that up for me!  :)
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  • trix1223trix1223 member
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    Since being a member of the WP isn't a job, it's impossible to "fire" someone.  Nice try.
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  • ViczaesarViczaesar member
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    What does "natta" mean?



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    [QUOTE]What does "natta" mean?
    Posted by Viczaesar[/QUOTE]
    This is what urban dictionary has to say about natta:
    <div class="definition">when you walk into a party with a case of natural ice the first thing that is said is "<strong class="highlight">Natta</strong> Boy"</div> <div class="example">Greg: hey guys I got some natty
    Jeff: Man that sh*t sucks..
    Greg: hey the sh*t gets ya drunk
    Jeff: true... <strong class="highlight">Natta</strong> Boy

    If OP is having a problem with her BM liking Natty Ice, then I think she should just let it go. :)
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  • tldhtldh member
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    so, did the girls have to submit a current wedding resume to get one of the open spots?
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    [QUOTE]so, did the girls have to submit a current wedding resume to get one of the open spots?
    Posted by tldh[/QUOTE]
    She probably gave them a questionnaire about herself, and whoever got the highest score got the job.  Kind of like an aptitude test.
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