What do you do when a bridesmaid calls you and tells you she's not going to be able to come 7 weeks before the wedding? She said that she'd send me the dress but I don't have anyone else to add the the wedding party. And taking a groomsman out isn't an option. Is it bad to just have the groomsman already standing up there and the bridesmaids just walk themselves down? How would the recessional go if I did that?