Wedding Party

Need creative ideas or advice for picking a best man

My fiance and I started thinking about our wedding party and who to include.  My fiance has two best friends that are very close to him and they have been friends for a very long time.  The friens are both married and my fiance wasn't a best man because they had brothers to do that.  My fiance's brother passed away about 4 years ago or he would be the best man.  My fiance has made the commen that he doesn't know what to do or which best friend to pick.  He doesn't want to pick one over the other and it cause a fight (even though it probably won't but I know feelings would get hurt). 

So I am trying to think of creative ways or a way to choose without hurting feelings.  I have thought of giving the idea brother in law or not have a best man, just groomsmen.  Or maybe an honory best man (listing his brother) and just having 3 groomsmen then 3 bridesmaids and my maid of honor.  Which it would be uneven sides and my sister would walk down the aisle by herself. 

If you have any ideas or suggestions I would love to hear them.

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