My wedding date is October 27, 2012...that being said I've started to ask some of my closest friends to be bridemaids. The place that I'm stuck is my sister-in-law is stationed with my brother overseas, I would really like her to be my MOH but I know she won't be able to help with most of the tasks. So instead I asked my Fiance's cousin, someone who has been like a sister to me and we're very close, to be the MOH. Is there a way I can give my sister-in-law an honor higher then a bridesmaid but less then a MOH. I understand people have been appointing more then one MOH but I don't want my MOH getting insulted because she did all the work and my sister-in-law didn't do any... Both are very sweet women and I don't want to do anything to hurt either of them because they are both extremely close to me! What would you do?
P.S. My sister-in-law said she was fine with being a bridesmaid and that she understood, but I still feel guilty.