This sounds so crazy, I'm not sure if I believe it yet or not. My bridal shower was this past weekend at a local restaurant. My sister is my maid of honor, my 19 year old daughter is a bridesmaid and my 11 year old daughter is a jr. bridesmaid. My 19 year old showed up 30 minutes late with a t-shirt and shorts on and her hair looked like she rolled out of bed. My sister confronted her, then ended up in a cat fight in the restroom. Now, neither one of them think the other exists. My wedding is in 39 days. It is a destination wedding and we will all be in the same rental house. Suggestions???