My cousin is my Maid of Honor and my best friend is my Matron of Honor. It has been brought to my attention by another brides maid that my cousin may be planning some things that everyone cannot afford. My Matron of Honor sent a message to my cousin with as polite of wording you could use trying to get it back on track. Now my cousin is upset.
I feel bad for all involved. My Matron sent a forward of what my Maid wanted and now all surprised are kind of ruined (which I don't mind but would hurt my cousin) i did not tell my cousin I saw this. I know my cousin means well and just wants me to have the best, but I don't think it is affordable at all since most my friends are mothers and we all live a very different life style than my cousin. I don't know what to do! I think that my cousin may be in the ballpark now but now the other girls are kind of on a rampage. I am thinking about canceling the whole deal. i don't know how else to resolve the issue without hurting everyone's feelings.
I am surprised that this is an issue, but I am finding a lot of things are tricky when it comes to wedding and planning. Any CONSTRUCTIVE advice?
