Wedding Party

bridesmaid or not bridesmaid?

so im not sure whether or not to ask my step sister to be a not very close to her and she lives an hour away...shes been my stepsister for over 20 yrs but i only see her maybe 3x a year for holidays.. i really just wanted people im close with and i know will always be a significant part of my life as my bridesmaids...but her mom, my stepmom who is married to my dad is like my second mom and i wouldnt want to hurt her feelings..on the other hand i find my step sister quite irritating sometimes..and she has an older sister who i already know does NOT want to be in the  if anyone has any thoughts or advice it would be appreciated!

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