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Doesn't want to be a bridesmaid

A friend of mine was asked to be in a wedding and doesn't want to do it. 

Reasons: We all worked together almost two years ago and they were never that close and only keep in touch through a mutual friend.  She was shocked to be asked and doesn't really want to do it.  Not to mention she is a bit of a tomboy and being a bridesmaid isn't really her thing.  The bride doesn't have a lot of girlfriends so we assume that's why she asked.  How does she tell the bride she doesn't want to be a BM?  Or does she just suck it up and do it?  I'm a bride-to-be myself and I don't know if I would be hurt or not by someone turning me down.
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