Short version possible. Originally I had chosen a MOH and 5 BMs....my FI had a BM and 5GM....My MOH is a friend of mine(although not the closet friend at the time) and my FI best friend(my reason for choosing her). One of my BM has been a friend of mine for several years now and I want her in the wedding. She got into a argument with FI because her heard her bad mouthing me for not picking her for my MOH. She asked my to call her because she knew he had already text me and told me(which of course he had). I was busy at the time and told her that i would try to later on. Needless to say I forgot and even forgot the whole thing(im very forgetful) and she blew up at me for it and took herself out of the wedding.
So with all the drama we decided to change things around and do mostly family wedding party....my 2 cousins, a friend and my MOH(original friend) and then his dad(best man) 2 uncles and my little brother. Well his mom asked his uncle who he didn't want to ask to be in the wedding and now they say his uncle should be in it and not his best friend that he had already wanted to be a GM
I guess my question is what should we do in these situations?