I have 5 bridesmaids: cousin from Norway, friend from grad school (known her 4 years), brother's girlfriend (they've only been together a little over 1 year), and two close female friends of my FI (one from college, one from grad school). I hardly know FI's friends but agreed to include them since he is close to them, and other girls I would have included cannot make it to the wedding. Plus my friend from grad school has helped me more than anyone else with wedding prep and has been so supportive, but my cousin from Norway is the only family member in my party.... I'm not sure how to order the girls without offending anyone. Any suggestions?