I'm getting married in 8 months and I've ran into huge problems with my wedding party. One of the girls decided to drop out b/c she is not able to committ to many events and needs to work which I understand but for her to have said she didn't feel welcomed made me upset. My 2 MOH's, who are my sisters, are trying to be supportive and helpful but I know that deep down they are happy she has decided to drop out. I thought that you're suppose to have fun and bond with your wedding party but I feel as though there are just constant fights. My other BM and my older sister have the same personalilties; they are very aggressive with their opinions and yesterday at the meeting my BM was being very dominating and my sister held her breath b/c she didn't want to upset me. I just don't know what to do. I don't know what to do about my friend who dropped out, I don't want her to feel like she needs to spend money or feel lefted out. We are planning a bach. party to Vegas and she can't commit b/c she doesn't know where she will be in May (job wise) and she is afraid she won't have money which is understandable but I feel like I would want all of my girls with me on my bach. party so we can all have fun and bond. Is that a lot to ask for?
Now my next fear is that my aggressive BM might drop out next and I don't know what to do. Is it me? Am I being unreasonable? =/